If you’ve already read my guide on one night stands, then you know that one of the things that I strongly emphasize is the power play. In case you aren’t familiar with it, the power play is basically when you build up a woman’s emotional state, and then take advantage of it by going for a kiss or taking her to an event at your house that you talked up, whether it was an after party, looking at some art that you have, etc.
1. Intro
2. Mode One behavior
Now it’s time to look at the other end of the spectrum, at something that I like to call throwing a wild card, a form of Mode One behavior. Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of not giving a shit. Not in the sense of doing things for the sake of doing them and trying to get a reaction out of people, but doing them simply because I don’t give a shit and I want to do them.
3. throwing out a wild card
I’ve done this plenty of times in the past, but I’m really starting to become conscious of it and use it to my advantage. And now that I’m conscious of it, I thought I’d share it with the rest of you. So what is throwing out a wild card? It’s simply just skipping the usual procedure, and doing the unexpected. For instance, lately I’ve been completely interrupting girls while they’re talking to me, and flat out telling them that I want to kiss them. And it’s worked almost every single time.
4. eye contact with a girl
In the past, I’d talk up something sexual, get her all dreamy eyed, and then go for a kiss. Now, we could be talking about fucking cats, and I’ll flat out stop the girl from talking, tell her that she has nice lips, and ask to kiss them. Completely out of left field. In fact, a couple of weeks ago, I made eye contact with a girl, and instead of the usual “hi†or whatever, I went straight in for the kiss.
5. I don’t do this
I won’t even bother with the after party bullshit anymore. It works, but I just don’t care to go through all of that anymore. If I want to take a girl home, I’ll completely interrupt her while she’s talking, and ask her if she wants to leave with me. Now, I don’t do this with every girl, but if a girl has really nice lips, or I really want to sleep with her right then and there, I’ll bullshit with her and build a little rapport, but after that, I’m like fuck it and going for the home run.
6. Final Thoguths
I don’t think this is something that you just do, but I believe it’s something that comes to you. Right now, I don’t even bother gaming girls, and it’s just so easy for me to get phone numbers and replace mature women that their value has completely diminished in my mind. So in a sense, this has come to me very naturally and it’s not something that I try to do. Mature women are very sensitive to when a guy is actually trying to be a certain way and when he is actually very naturally that way. They tend to look for congruency in his body language, tone of voice, and his overall behavior, which actually makes trying to fake this type of dominance very difficult. This is exactly why I’m not so sure this will work for the average guy. However, this is something to think about.